Wedding Planning Top Tips
Things to think about when planning a wedding:
We know that when planning a wedding there are a million and one things to think about, we thought we would try to help by suggesting some of them that we think are important. These are in no particular order and feel free to completely ignore some/all of them.
Budget
Every couple will have a different budget. One of the most important things to do is talk about it from the very beginning. One may be dreaming of a fairytale wedding with white horses and castles, the other may be thinking of a drink down the local. Both are fine if that is what both people want. Talk about what you can afford to save toward the wedding and if family will make a contribution. Set a realistic goal and work towards it. Look at prices on websites, visit wedding fayres so that you have an idea of what you need.
Venue/date
If you have your heart set on a particular venue then we would always advise you to book early. Wedding venues can be booked 2/3 years in advance. Can you be flexible on your date or is it set in stone? A little flexibility could make all the difference, could you marry in the week or does it have to be a Saturday?
DJ/entertainment
We feel this can make or break a party. Consider whether you want just a DJ or do you want another form of entertainment too. There are lots of options such as live bands and magicians. If you decide on a live band bear in mind that they will usually play 2 sets of 45/60 minutes each. This will not fill your whole evening. A good DJ will play for 5 hours and will happily accommodate a live band within this. If you decide on a DJ check them out first. A reputable company will have a website with reviews. Call them up and speak to them, ask about insurance and PAT testing. Most venues will want to see their documents regarding those. Almost everyone has a friend of a friend that can play music but be cautious, if they are ill on the day or forget and book a holiday, you are stuck. Good, popular DJ's get booked well in advance, if someone can do it for £50 next week it probably shows that they are not that busy. It really is a case of you get what you pay for, a good DJ will probably cost from £300 upwards depending on time of year and day of the week.
Guests
Are you having a small intimate wedding or the biggest party ever seen. Do you just want family and close friends or are you inviting Uncle Freds next door neighbours dog. Remember, each guest will affect the cost of your wedding. Do you really need to invite the Great Aunt that you haven’t seen for 20 years? What about children, are you allowing them or is it a grown up only wedding. The choice is yours, don’t let anyone tell you that you have to do something, it is your day.
Food
A 3 course sit down meal, a hog roast, a barbeque or a buffet, again, the choice is yours. The time of the wedding can make a difference to what food you have. If it is an earlier wedding then you can have time for 2 meals, maybe a sit down and then a buffet in the evening. If it is a later wedding you may have time for 1 meal. Remember to check with guests any allergies/dietary requirements and make your venue aware of these before the big day.
Photographer
Are you having one? Almost everyone has a camera on their phone, some guests may have good quality cameras. An official photographer will capture lots of moments the guests don’t see, the bride getting ready, the groom getting nervous and all the preparations that go on beforehand. They will also take the couple away from the guests and take some very special photos of the big day.

Hair/make up
On the big day it is much nicer if someone else is worrying about the hair and make up. You can hire a professional or if you have a trusted friend/family member they can do it. A professional is obviously just that, they will have all the equipment they need and will have done wedding hair/make up lots of times. A friend/family member will keep things very personal to you and this can add to the friendly feel of the day
We hope that you may find some of these points helpful. We understand that there is a lot to think of and sometimes reading something can trigger another thought or idea. However you choose to mark your wedding day we hope that you have exactly the day you want.
